FAQ'S

"Mediation" is an Alternative Dispute Resolution process in which an impartial, neutral third person, the "Mediator", helps two or more parties to reach their own resolution of their problem. A mediator assists the parties to discuss and resolve their differences when direct negotiation between the parties is not feasible or working. Most mediated cases are settled.

1. Call and make an appointment.
2. Mediate. Through the guidance and instruction of Jay Bultz, you will proceed step by step through four basic categories of issues for detailed discussion and decision as follows:
   1. The Marital Relationship. This will cover your legal rights and responsibilities such as spousal support and medical care, rights to inherit, restraining orders, dating, etc.
   2. Parenting. This will cover all matters concerning your children such as custody, visitation, restrictions, communication, child support, life insurance, etc.
   3. Division of Property. This will cover all matters concerning real estate, personal property, vehicles, financial accounts, etc.
   4. Allocation of Debts. This will cover all matters concerning debts and liabilities such as mortgages, loans, credit cards, property and vehicle financing, etc.
3. Prepare the agreement. After the mediation session(s) a draft of your agreement will be prepared. Pick it up and review it thoroughly. Make corrections and changes together or schedule another mediation session if necessary. Otherwise drop it off or call in the corrections and changes. Come in and sign the final version. Other documentation may apply such as financial declarations, a quitclaim deed, or possibly a QDRO.
4. Take the agreement to court. It will have limited enforceability until it is reviewed and approved by the family court and made an order of the court. You may hire an attorney for this process or Jay Bultz can provide you with the paperwork and detailed step by step instructions for you to do it yourself.

Yes, if you have the no-fault ground of one year’s separation. If not, the agreement is taken to court for approval for a "legal separation". After the one year's separation either party can apply for the divorce. That paperwork can also be prepared by Jay Bultz.

No. Sorry. Not all cases are good for mediation or ADR! Those cases involving abuse or threats of harm and those cases in which one or both spouses are emotionally entrenched or demand revenge or punishment or they are being just plain vindictive are not good for mediation or ADR. Those cases will need a judge to impose a decision upon them and either bring them back to reality or leave them bitter! Also, when one party does not want to divorce and refuses to participate.